Be-Do-Have Paradigm

Most of us believe that if we have the things we want, we'll get to do the things we want, and then we'll become the person we want to be. But we have it backwards. It's by being who we want to be (feeling like we want to feel) that we discover what to do in order to acquire what we'd like to have.

- Neale Donald Walsch

--excerpt from Kick-Ass Creativity by Mary Beth Maziarz